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Daniel Quinan's avatar

“You must believe that if anyone…treats you in a way that is beneath your dignity, that is wrong and it offends God. And the same is true if you do it to them, even if they do it to you first.”

This is more of a tangential thought by me, and not any sort of real oversight by you, but I was struck here by the further thought: “and even if they did it to themselves first” and/or “even if you’ve done it to yourself first”. Just thinking about how sometimes we might describe people as “debasing themselves”, or what have you, and yet how even if that’s true it changes nothing – it’s still wrong to treat others (or for others to treat us) in an undignified manner even if they (we) have “lowered” themselves (ourselves), even if they (we) believe they (we) deserve it, or even if they (we) would consent to be treated in such a way due to the false belief that they (we) deserve it, etc.

I suppose this ultimately links back to illustrating how a healthy (not excessive) sense of pride is indeed a virtue, in contrast with the “small-souled” person who fails to claim to the dignity they are truly owed, etc. But that’s a very separate reflection!

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Marsanne Reid's avatar

I never knew Francis Xavier was cofounder. I thought he was perhaps the most prominent monk. Something I read this morning said he never did get to preach in China, because he was very ill when he arrived, and died soon thereafter.

This was a GREAT homily for teenager boys

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